今天早上送走了陪月婆，真正的挑战才正要开始。。。
陪月婆好意煮好我今天的早餐才走，不然我真的没有时间煮东西吃。。。
从早上九点抵家开始，Marcus弟弟就一直在折腾mama。。。好像说得很难听一样，不过累垮了的mama的耐心精力真的备受考验。。。
一开始就是冲凉时Marcus弟弟哭得好凄惨，人家会以为我家发生家暴。。用的冲凉盆及全部东西都跟以前为宣萱冲凉时一样，可是Marcus弟弟就是不赏脸啦！
再来就是一早就知道Marcus弟弟爱人家抱抱，可以乖乖躺着自己玩或者入睡的时候少之又少。。。
陪月婆肉肉的怀抱好温暖，Marcus弟弟习惯了躺在温暖的怀抱中被哄入睡，今早mama快要虚脱了，Marcus弟弟还是不赏脸睡觉去。。。
以为出动摇篮就可以扭转局势，岂料原来Marcus弟弟不像宣萱姐姐一样，他不受这一套。。。
mama将Marcus弟弟抱进摇篮-摇-摇-摇-还一面有节奏地拍拍Marcus弟弟的屁股，结果小瓜还是没两下就大哭，所以又将小瓜抱出来，心想是不是饿了，就喂奶啦，然后又摇-摇-摇，又哭，心想是不是大便啦，换好尿片后又摇-摇-摇，又哭。。。这样重复好几回，mama自己反倒想差点睡着了。。。
时间在指缝间溜走，不知不觉我被折腾了四个小时，好睏啊！
结果呢？mama有点儿“自暴自弃”地想要出动奶嘴，反正有一个小号的新奶嘴闲着没用，也不管他什么奶嘴奶头混淆了。。。在罪恶感很深的情况下将奶嘴塞进Marcus弟弟的嘴里后，刚开始Marcus弟弟将奶嘴吐出来，不过没两下就吸得很过瘾了。。。哇，真的是“学好三年，学坏三天”啊！
时间过了一分钟，两分钟，看着大大的奶嘴出现在Marcus弟弟小小的嘴巴上，好像不是很妥哦！
结果mama又将奶嘴拔出来，一定有比奶嘴更好的方法的！
结果呢？还是要出动杀手锏，就是亲喂母乳！
结果Marcus弟弟就真的乖乖在我怀中睡着了。。。其实也不是在我怀中啦。。。强力推荐breastfeeding pillow，U-shaped的，将之套在腰间，Marcus弟弟睡在其上，mama就变得活动自如啦！就像现在可以边喂母乳一边上网，一心二用，一箭双雕。。。
昨天Marcus弟弟去打了生平第一枝预防针，体重秤出来吓了我一跳，出生时体重3.3kg，一个月后的现在已经起到4.8kg。。。有点儿难以置信哦！难怪有时我抱他时双手那么快酸。。。
希望更快找到方法让Marcus弟弟不用一直要人抱抱就可以轻易入眠！
12 条评论:
I read a article before, actually is no harm to give baby pacifier, as he needs comfort.
Of course, is up to u parents whether give or not to give :)
How do u find ur confinement lady? As nowadays is not easy to get a good one.
**Anderson Mama**
加油了！
我家女儿也是个喜欢抱抱的宝宝， 结果我这一年来都总是在抱她。 有时我还常常悔不当初， 想想她刚出世得时候不应该抱她太多， 把她宠坏了。
所以要让自己在往后的日子轻松些， 现在就得狠心点， 不要太多得抱抱
Hi Anderson Mama, my confinement lady is really a good one. i look for the same lady twice as i found her good. But actually they being good or not sometimes depends on how we treat them also. i don't think being my confinement lady is a hard job, it is easy instead. i finish all she cook, i help to take care of baby when she is occupied in kitchen, it is kind of a good interaction & consideration between us.
Hi JESS,我有同感你所说的，所以我就是不大爱抱他，一来手好酸，二来不想养成习惯。。。一个月后，托儿所的aunty们哪来的时间精力抱抱他呢？
totally understand your feeling.. i have the same feeling when my confinement lady left...
haha.. gambateh
that breastfeeding pillow u bought at where?
Hi Yvonne, now i am striving to adapt with my baby's behavior & temper, correct whichever not right before hand over him to daycare center later... also for easier upbringing.
Hi kym, i bought the breastfeeding pillow at a shop which they have a website for online purchase too. search mybbstore and you are there!
the other name for breastfeeding pillow is nursing pillow. i think you can get it from Jusco & Anakku & some baby shop too. price normally around RM90. i check the website...now the item Bumble Bee nursing pillow is sold at RM62 only...i think it is much cheaper than last time i bought. if not mistaken i bought it during sale too, price around RM70, now it is even cheaper!
Hi, may i know how old is ur confinement lady & can i haf d contact pls!
How about urut? any recommendation?
thanks!
**Anderson Mama**
Dear Anderson Mama, my confinement lady is from my hometown in perak. i never ask how old is she but i guess is around 60, but is still strong. i sometimes chat with her and she told me that she only accept confinement offer once or twice a year and cannot crash with her travel schedule. she is like not really eager to do this job and having tendency to choose case that she prefer, e.g. family background, no. of members in the family, etc etc. sound very choosy right? she explained that previously she did accept many confinement case everywhere but nowadays her children all grown up and she is not in need of such income as compared to last time. kind of retired person thinking la. very sorry to tell you all this but do you really need her contact? as i do not have it as well, it is my mom who contact her on my behalf in my hometown. as for the urut, last time i call upon Kak Ai 0173969031 RM50/ hour urut only. This time she is so busy and appointment schedule always full so i change to another new one Kak Khim 0163406684 from puchong. She quote me RM80/ 90min including urut & hot stone. But she said she quote me cheap as my house is really nearby her place. if you live nearby puchong, you can ask for her as well, she is not bad. actually i am going to write a post regarding urut but please be patient. i have lots of things to share but no time.
Thanks for sharing. I dun need the contact now, but may be later :). For the urut, i found their business very 'laku'.... I got one contact before, but she always absent for many reasons like kereta rosak, mak mertua sakit...
**Anderson Mama**
Dear Anderson Mama, i will find urut that is really serious and keen for business. i will make a post regarding urut as soon as possible for sharing purpose anyway.
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